In
the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Today,
you gathered here today have, as they say, “cleaned up good.” You
showered and washed, shaved and scrubbed. You primped and plucked.
You had your hair cut and your nails done. You dressed yourself in
beautiful finery, and decorated yourself with make-up and jewelry.
All this in an effort to be the best you can be for each other. Who
would not want to present himself at the best and brightest and most
wonderful for his bride?
But
what about the inside? Is the inside as clean and polished and
beautiful as the outside? Left to your own devices, the answer would
be no. In the verses preceding our epistle lesson, the apostle gives
an account of what the heart of man is like. St. Paul instructs,
Put
to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality,
impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.
On account of these the wrath of God is coming. In these you too once
walked, when you were living in them. But now you must put them all
away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your
mouth. Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the
old self with its practices.
All
these things are what is common to man. These things are easy to do.
They come naturally, and sometimes you find yourself doing them
without trying, maybe without even noticing. These are the things
that come about because of the poison of sin which infects and
corrupts you to your core. This you inherited from Adam, and this is
what drags you toward the grave.
Indeed,
these things are what the devil will use to attack you and your
marriage, from within and without. He does not want you to live in
peace and joy as husband and wife. He does not want you to fill your
home with the Word of God and the knowledge of salvation. He will
tempt you to let a lustful eye wander. He will fan the flames of your
temper and set fire to the kindling of your petty annoyances. He will
cause you to desire the place of your husband and he will tempt you
to give it up to her. He will make it easy to tune out the Word of
the Lord and to wander away from the grace of God in the forgiveness
of your sins.
But
take heart! All is not lost. For you have put on Christ. While you
were yet sinners, Christ died for you. He who knew no sin became sin
for you, that you might receive His righteousness. The cross of
Christ secured your redemption and your salvation.
Our
Lord Christ has bathed you in the holy font. In those blessed waters,
the Lord cleansed you with His Word and washed you clean with His
blood. He drowned your old, sinful, stony heart, and He has brought
you up out of the flood into the new life which is His alone to give.
He has cleansed you and clothed you with the white robe of His
righteousness and holiness. Jesus Christ has made you clean, pure,
and holy, because He is pure and holy. You have been baptized into
Christ, and therefore all that is His is now yours. He has sanctified
you and presented you to Himself as His pure, spotless, acceptable
bride.
Therefore,
live in the grace with which God has adorned you. “And
above all these put on love, which binds everything together in
perfect harmony.”
Put on love, as Christ has bound each of you to Himself. He has made
you His own, cleansed and purified you, and put His name upon you. He
has chosen you and called you His beloved. Put on love as you take up
His name.
In
this same love, our Lord Christ binds you together, body and soul,
two into one. You who were formerly two, now are becoming one in
spirit and in flesh. From this night on, you no longer live to
yourself, but you live for each other, even as you live in Christ. It
is the grace of Christ that has called you together, and He will bind
you to Himself and to one another in the bonds of love.
As
you are bound together in Christ Jesus, you will forgive each other
and pass over a multitude of wrongs for the sake of love. As God has
forgiven your sins, so you will forgive each other, not keeping a
record of wrongs, but loving and serving joyfully. What sins God has
removed, let you not remember. Put on love, which covers a multitude
of sins.
Today,
you are cleaned up and made beautiful for one another, not only on
the outside, but on the inside. All the filth and death of the old
Adam has been washed away, and Jesus Christ has made you holy and
perfect and has equipped you to love and serve each other in joy and
peace. Your sins are forgiven, and your grace is complete.
Remember
what happens today. Treasure in your heart the blessings that God
bestows on you this day, and recall them in good times and in bad.
Remember the vows that you are about to take, and rejoice that even
in the worst circumstances God has and will continue to give you the
grace and the strength to keep them, til death do you part.
You
are clothed in Christ. You are washed in His blood. You are bound
together in Him and by His grace. You are made beautiful for your
Bridegroom, now and forever. “And
let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were
called in one body. And be thankful.”
In
the Name of Jesus. Amen.
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