In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
“Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.”
Eloise Gesell was many things in her life. She was a daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, great- and great-great-grandmother. She was a member of the community and a member of this parish. She was a skilled homemaker and gardener.
None of these things could have been accomplished without loss, in some measure. To be a child means acknowledging that you cannot provide for yourself, that you are reliant upon your parents to nurture you in body and soul. To be a sibling means that you must give up any exclusive claim upon the affections of your parents; you must learn to share. To be a husband or wife means that you must give up a measure of your independence and live not for yourself but for the one to whom our Lord has bound you. To be a parent means that you must look not only to your own needs and wants, but to those of the children God has given to you; you must be responsible for them and their well-being. Even to be a successful gardener requires sacrifice – you must submit the toil of your hands and the sweat of your brow to the ground, and pray for the bounty of the earth to spring forth.